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4 Simple Steps To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

THE LOVE DESTINATION EXPERT SERIES WITH NARDIA NORMAN

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Want to stop comparing yourself to others?

As women we’re often brought up to compete with one another. Basing our self-worth on how we stack up and using our fellow sisters as a source of comparison instead of inspiration. But as Theodore Roosevelt said “comparison is the thief of joy” and it will slowly eat away at your self-esteem. So how do you nurture your own self-love and stop comparing yourself to others?

Freedom Entrepreneur and Health Expert Nardia Norman says that comparison leads us into the false belief that we’re not worthy.

“’Comparison is the thief of joy.'” “When you compare yourself to others you are subconsciously telling yourself that you are not good enough or whole enough,” Nardia Norman told The Love Destination Expert Series. “And that’s so not the truth because you’re enough exactly how you are.”

So How Do You Stop Comparing Yourself To Others?

 

Nardia’s 4 Simple Steps To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

 

1. Focus on Improvement, Not Perfection

“The goal with any sort of development is to focus on improvement not perfection – work on yourself and only compare yourself to yesterday’s performance, ” said Norman.
 

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2. Stop Comparing Yourself To Instagram Stars

“The only person that you should ever be comparing yourself to is you,” Norman told The Love Destination.  “Remove anything that tempts you to compare yourself for example magazines and social media. For example, your Instagram stars or all those other people on social media. Do yourself the favour of just letting go of that sort of stuff and turning the focus back to you.”

Watch this episode of The Love Destination Expert Series as Freedom Entrepreneur and Health Expert Nardia Norman reveals how to remove yourself from the comparison trap.
 
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3. Find Positive Role Models

Nardia also recommends surrounding yourself positive role models. “Find good role models who inspire you without feeling the need to compare to. The only person you should ever compare yourself to is YOU from the day before,” said Norman.

 

4. Focus On Your Achievements

Finally, Norman advises women to focus on what they have rather than what they wish they could change. “Think about all your achievements that you’ve made along the way. That’s the only thing you should be comparing yourself to. That’s going to help cultivate your own appreciation and your own body love.”

 

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About the Author

About Nardia Norman

Nardia Norman is the award winning Australian Personal Trainer of the year, author, speaker and women’s health expert. For over 15 years Nardia has played an integral role in the development and education of Personal trainers and has successfully coached thousands of people to transform so they may reach their full potential and live happier, freer lives.

Nardia is on a mission to bring common sense back to an industry full of hype and aims to show women how to experience Body Wisdom, Body Love and Body Freedom. She also works with conscious PT’s to expand their Body Wisdom education so as to facilitate Body Freedom with their clients.


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